I don’t think dating is messed up because of just men or just women. I think things just changed, and now people don’t agree on how it should work. Before, it was simple men asked girls out and paid, and women decided if they liked them. Now, some people still want that, but others want everything to be equal. So people get confused because they expect different things.
Also, dating is harder now. Things cost more money, and apps make it feel like there are always more people to choose from. That can make people try less or not take it seriously. After a while, some people get tired and stop trying as much. So it’s not really one side’s fault. It’s just that the old way is gone, and there isn’t a clear new way yet. That’s why it feels confusing for everyone. What’s your take on it?
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